I'm having a very difficult time dealing with conflict in my team

I hate conflict. I have been like that since I was young. It’s not that I want to please everyone or have everyone as a friend, but I hate conflict.

We have four people in the business. I thought about us as a team and I never imagined real teams having conflict. When people disagreed I did not know if it was personal or business. The more this happened, the more withdrawn I became.

I’ve now reached the stage where asking people to do something makes my stomach turn. If I’m going to stay in business I think I need to see a therapist.